The possibility came by way of Dr. John Donhowe at Bellevue Women's Hospital who's been performing Invitro fertilization for years. Although sperm was taken from Tom's testicles, it was juvenile and not strong enough to penetrate an egg.

Dr. John Donhowe said, "For those for whom nothing else has worked or is likely to work, that is the only option they realistically have."

In a normal IVF procedure, the eggs and sperm are put in a petrie dish like and left to fertilize on their own. But because of Tom's vasectomy, this wasn't possible. So Dr. Donhowe opted for a different procedure called ICSI.

Dr. Donhowe said, "Introcytoplasmic sperm injection in which we actually pick up a single sperm with a very fine glass microscopic needle and use that needle to actually puncture the cell membrane of the egg and insert the sperm directly into the egg."

After, the fertilized egg divides into an embryo, and it's placed into the uterus. But it still takes two weeks to see if a pregnancy has occurred.

The McGinnesses went through this six times unsuccessfully. They even looked into adoption, but due to age and other requirements, they weren't qualified.

Dawn said, "You can never give up. You just can't give up."

And they didn't. It was lucky number seven that brought them the miracle of life--Bailey is their healthy, boisterous 21-month- old pride and joy.

Dawn said, "I really didn't believe it until I started showing."

Tom said, "I was thrilled. I cried like I'm about to do now."

It was a dream that finally became a reality, all thanks to the miracle of modern technology.

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