Only option left for
many couples
By Nick Papps in Los
Angeles
September 5, 2004
In a scene reminiscent of a science fiction
movie plot, prospective parents at a Californian
company called The Egg Donor Program can choose
the genetic make-up of their future babies by
computer.
Features ranging from hair colour to
intelligence - all based on the donor mother's
genetic make up - can be previewed via a website
with the click of a mouse.
It is a practice increasingly being used by
Australian couples who desperately want a baby
but find the legal problems at home mean the US
is the only place they
can pre-determine their baby's genetic
make-up and overcome other obstacles.
Californian woman Allison Jarvie is one of
hundreds of women in the US listed on the site.
Jarvie is paid about $10,000 every time she
allows her eggs to be harvested from her body,
fertilised and placed in the uterus of another
woman.
So far her eggs have created three separate
sets of twins, including children for an
Australian professional couple.
The website is operated by The Egg Donor
Program company, which has produced an estimated
2500 children around the world in the past 15
years by linking women that want to sell their
eggs with infertile couples. The company's
website lists 250 women who are offering their
eggs for sale.
At first glance, the profiles look like
something from a dating service - and, in some
ways, that is exactly what they are. Only
babies, not love, is on offer.
With a click of a button, potential parents
are able to discover just how a child might
look, and what they might become, if a
particular woman's eggs were bought, fertilised
and implanted in the mother-to-be.
Jarvie, 29, who has three children of her
own, is just one of the women on that website.
Just over a year ago, her profile caught the
eyes of a professional couple from Sydney aged
in their late thirties. They want to keep their
identity secret, but he is a very successful
banker and she is also a professional.
For years they had been trying unsuccessfully
to have a child.
In their desperation to start a family, the
couple had even turned to a friend to donate
eggs, but the procedure failed to produce a
child.
As their prospects of parenthood began to
fade, the couple put their names down to adopt a
child. It was while they were on this waiting
list they clicked on eggdonation.com and opened
up a file on Jarvie.
It was a match. Jarvie had many of the
characteristics that the Sydney couple wanted in
a child and - over the next few days -
a series of phone calls were made between the
couple and The Egg Donor Program.
A short time later, the couple were on their
way to California in a final bid to have a
family.
"They flew here for a consultation, they were
shown my profile, they liked it and asked to go
forward, and it happened straight away," Jarvie
recalls.
Over a couple of weeks, the Sydney woman
underwent a series of tests and was given drugs
to stimulate the lining of her uterus, while
Jarvie received injections that would stimulate
her ovaries. Jarvie was later injected to start
ovulation.
Then, in a 45-minute operation, eggs were
harvested from Jarvie's ovaries, placed in a
Petri dish, and fertilised with the banker's
sperm for three days. Life was created.
The resultant embryo was then implanted in
the Australian woman's womb and, a few days
later, the couple flew back in to Sydney - their
lives forever changed. Last May, the Sydney
mother gave birth to a boy and a girl, who carry
her husband's genes - and the genes of a woman
who lives on the other side of the world.
The Egg Donor Program company estimates it
has helped to create children for more than 200
couples living in NSW, Victoria, South Australia
and Queensland. For many couples, the journey to
the United States is a way to circumvent the
long waiting lists at home for egg donors and
laws against paying for donors and surrogate
mothers.
Most of the couples have kept their trips to
America secret from even their closest friends.
The buying of eggs and surrogacy is a moral and
social minefield, raising ethical questions
about the buying of life, and even the basic
issue of determining the legal status of the
mother of a child born from a donated egg and
borne by another woman. But for Jarvie, who now
works for The Egg Donor Program, there are no
such dilemmas.
"The mum is the one that gives life to the
child," she says.
"Without her carrying the child, there
wouldn't be a child - she gives the blood, the
oxygen and the food, I'm just the DNA."
It is no coincidence that the couple who
bought Jarvie's eggs are well off, because
buying eggs is expensive, with Australian
couples spending up to $20,000 for a "harvest"
of up to 10 eggs from a donor. Then there is the
cost of the in vitro-fertilisation procedure,
which includes the fertilisation of the eggs and
the implantation of the embryos in another
woman. That process can add another $30,000 to
the bill.
And for couples wanting a surrogate mother to
carry the embryos and give birth to the child,
that costs another $130,000.
On top of all that is the cost of airfares
and accommodation during the whole process.
Another leading Los Angeles fertility agency,
Egg Donation Inc, says it has helped 50 couples
from NSW, Victoria, Queensland and South
Australia to have babies.
The company finds donors, organises the
transfers to recipients and even finds surrogate
mothers.
In the last 12 months alone, 10 Australian
couples have visited Egg Donation Inc's LA
office.
The person in charge of matching donors with
recipients at Egg Donation Inc is Lyne
Macklin-Fife. Sitting in the sterile boardroom
of her office in Encino, LA, she explains that
an emerging trend is for gay couples to use the
company's services.
So far her company has helped 10 homosexual
couples from Australia become parents.
She has another five on her waiting list, and
there may be more after the company visits
Australia next year to promote its service.
Macklin-Fife says the gay couples are
invariably well off, educated and generally aged
between 30 and 50 years.
Many are from the same social groups in
Sydney or Melbourne and that in itself can
create problems, with Egg Donation Inc having to
make sure different donors are used for each gay
couple to ensure the children look different and
have different personality traits.
These new families are created by taking one
of the men's sperm, fertilising donated eggs and
implanting them in a surrogate mother. And
Macklin-Fife says in many cases the men's
families are very involved in the whole process,
with mothers often helping their sons to choose
the donor.
And, in almost every case, the men want to
have twins.
"Most have twins, they want to have two
babies," she says.
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