UK mom will have to adopt her
kids
Shyam Bhatia in London |
February 02, 2004 18:14 IST
rediff.com
A 26-year-old
Indian beautician whose twins were born by surrogacy in
India will have to formally adopt them before they can
be allowed to enter the UK.
British officials in
London have confirmed that Lata and Akash Nagla will
have to file adoption papers for their twins, Neal and
Nandine, before they can return home to their biological
parents to Ilford, east of London.
The children were born
by caesarian section two weeks ago, after Lata's mother,
46 year old Rhadha Patel, agreed to
be implanted with embryos created from her daughter's
fertilised eggs.
Under British law it is
Radha Patel who would be considered the twin's natural
mother, hence the need to reallocate parental
responsibility through adoption.
Once the adoption
papers have been filed and accepted, a procedure that is
expected to take about six weeks, the twins will be
allowed to fly back to the UK with their parents.
"My mother has made my
dream come true," Lata said in a statement issued from
her parents' home in Gujarat. "I will never be able to
thank her enough - never. It is simply a miracle and God
has answered our prayers. We have been given two
beautiful gifts.
"I am getting used to
being a mother now. I am a bit scared of returning to
Britain, but hope that when people see my lovely babies,
they will only compliment me."
Lata suffers from a
rare genetic condition, Rokitansky's Syndrome, that
prevented her from giving birth and placed a big strain
on her marriage.
Husband Akash, a
shoemaker who is currently in Gujarat with his wife and
the new born twins, commented: "Kids keep parents
together. When I found out four years ago that we could
not have children, I broke down in tears. It put a very
big strain on our marriage. There was a big risk we
could not stay together."
The twins' mother and
grandmother was initially reluctant to carry the
children for her daughter's sake but soon overcame her
inhibitions and now says she would recommend surrogacy
to anyone who has problems similar to her daughter's.
"I pray that the babies
have a long, happy and peaceful life and that people
will not treat them any differently because of how they
came into this world."
Reservations, however,
have been expressed by ethics groups in the UK.
Josephine Quintavalle
of Comment on Reproductive Ethics said, "It is not ideal
for a grandmother to give birth to her grandchildren.
There is a confusion about social roles. A grandmother
and mother have very distinct roles.
"We should always be
looking at what is the ideal situation. Sometimes the
best way forward is to accept infertility, as harsh as
that sounds."